'Happiness' The biggest paradox

'Happiness' The biggest paradox

“It is always the false that makes you suffer, the false desires and fears, the false values and ideas, the false relationships between people. Abandon the false and you are free of pain; truth makes happy, truth liberates.” ― Nisargadatta Maharaj

We are controlled by our thoughts. Those thoughts are created by our surroundings. We don’t know why we want the material things very badly. But we believe if we got more of the stuff we will get happy. But if its true the why rich people are very unhappy. The unmarried thinks if he have wife he will be happy. When he is married he feels like his freedom is lost and now he is having the responsibility of the family. To fulfill that he, has to work like a slave. He wants to have children. But he also needs to pay for their school, and daily needs. Now he is more bounded like a spider in his own web. Now he don’t have his own life and he worries 24 hours about food and security for the family.

          Both married and unmarried are unhappy, they block their own happiness and power. Because they project their happiness in pleasant circumstances.

This is the problem with us. We always desire so many things. We have unlimited expectations. And its impossible to fulfill all desires and expectations of mind and we are always unhappy.

This is the trap of mind, we don’t know that but we are controlled by mind. Mind is not the real self but it has the power to affect the real self. Did you ever thought some people doing most difficult tasks are happy, you may have listen about the soldiers who were deadly wounded but still laughing. Some freedom fighters were smiling while getting hang to death. They were happy in extreme conditions because they dedicated there ‘mind’ to the mission. Understand one thing- you don’t need any external condition to be happy. The material things are always decaying. Nothing is permanent other than your deeds. This is the key to the power, don’t believe your mind, decide some big goal in life and dedicate yourself to that goal and you will become great. 

“You will receive everything you need when you stop asking for what you do not need” ― Nisargadatta Maharaj

Pleasure puts you to sleep and pain wakes you up. If you don'twant to suffer, don't go to sleep. 

WHAT IS THE BEST WAY OF STUDY AND PREPARE FOR EXAM

        THE BEST WAY OF STUDY

  1.      Don’t  just read the important points-

This is one of the biggest reason of less understanding and forgetting of the topics. For example you see thousands of faces but u remember only those, who you recognize and everybody else just pass through the way. You recognize them because you know and understand them.

Same way if you understand the concepts you will remember them.

  2.      How to understand concepts in your books-

To understand the concepts in the book, don’t go serial wise without involving in the matter. Choose A topic for study and read everything about that in the book in all the pages, while doing this interest will automatically get created and you will start understanding. Do this for all the topics in your book.

The best way to start is- start with most important topic or most interested topic.

  3.      The most important thing for exam-

Don’t study on exam day at all. This is necessary to make the mind as much energetic as possible before exam.

Many students complain that they were unable to recall the topics and matters in exam which they prepared very well. They remember the data other days but forget on examination time. This is because of doing too much study and giving huge stress to the brain. And the stress hormone blocks the capability to remember. Its same as an engine fails on high speed by overheating. And if you are already tired you can’t win a battle. Even walking is difficult when you are too tired and not slept. Same happens with brain in exam.

The solution is very easy but highly useful. Complete all the preparation and study one day before examination. For last day preparation revising is important but don’t stress on new topics, and then sleep well. On examination day be relaxed don’t  worry about anything and believe on your study throughout the year, you will feel confident and you will remember everything.

                                          

                                                                         Best of Luck!

The Matrix and The Mind

The Matrix and The Mind

“You're a dream. Like everything else.” 

 - Kelly Creagh, Nevermore

We think this world is real. We believe it, because we observe things and feel it. And we are trained from childhood to do so. But do you observe the way 'actually' as it is or is there any other side to the coin of reality. 

Lets take a look to our capability of observation. We see through eyes but we cant see below infrared or beyond ultraviolet light (which can be seen by snake and bat), even we cant see too nearer or  objects at large distance neither very small things microorganisms. Then how to trust on the eyes. Similarly our other senses also has limitations like ears cant listen too high or too low frequency sound. Then how you think you observe it correctly.

The tiniest particles of matter are not fixed to a place or time as Quantum Physics states. A particle cane be anywhere at any time or can be at several places at the same time. 

MECHANISM OF SUCCESS-

 How to succeed, what is the source of all might in human? Its desire. Yes it is the strongest force. And its creator the mind (‘mana’ in Sanskrit) is the controller of human life. All humans in the world are nearly same physically but what makes one successful and another unsuccessful. What is the major key difference between the winner and loser- is there different desire. Yes both want success but deep inside winner desire only success at any cost and looser desire success also comfort also enjoyment, and his mind is diverted to so many other desires. Whereas working hard for success itself is the enjoyment for winner.

Many animals have better capabilities than humans. Apes are stronger and skilled. Dolphins are smarter. But what makes human better is that they can consciously choose their goal and define the destiny only humans has the power to manipulate there mental operating system. If you understand this you will definitely be successful and achieve anything. This is what makes the difference between a leader and a follower. One more important thing is struggle and pains are just feelings and can be replaced if we are in pursuit of our goal.

When we are child we have very small desires and we are happy. As we grow our desires also grow and we become more and more unhappy and unsatisfied. The world is not what you think. When you know it you will get your natural happiness!

Human body is most powerful in the world it can fail animals and machines. Every human has incredible capabilities. But it’s locked in the levels of consciousness. This thing ‘consciousness’ science still does not understand. But consciousness always plays vital role in the advancement of science.

                Our body is like a super machine having lots of sensors, tools and hardware and heavy electricity supply available. But the Operating system of the body is out dated and without any driver for the hardware.